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Sunday, March 28, 2010

Three reasons people can't cope in life...‏


Sometimes our life just gets too serious...too busy...and too complicated. We don't mean for it to happen, but we wake up one morning to discover the fun has slipped away.

A few years ago a health study determined there are 3 main reasons people can't cope in life:

1)They live in the past.
2)They have a low self-esteem.
3)They can't laugh at themselves.

In fact, the study indicated that we need approximately 12 laughs a day to stay healthy!Laughter is always a good medicine to cure any wound of our past.

I heard a story not long ago about a guy who sent flowers to his friend who was opening a new restaurant. When he arrived at the grand opening, he looked for his flowers. Well, when he found them, he saw that he had sent a white wreath that said, "May you rest in peace." He panicked, of course, and called the florist who said, "Bob, I'm not worried about you because as we speak, there's a guy being buried who got a dozen roses that said, "Good luck in your new location!"

Ah yes...life throws us curve balls when we least expect it! And sometimes, just to stay sane, we need to sit back and laugh!

Ya,honest speaking,I myself met with a lot of setbacks in life.I have fail in exams before,having torn in a relationship...the list goes on.Some problems just cannot be solved and need some time for us to just forget about the pain and live for the future.

I think we should always be optimistic about life.Make your life as simple as possible.Learn to love yourselves before we can extend our love to love others.Love yourself does not mean that you are selfish.Eveyone in this world is unique.When you love yourself,you will value yourself more and do something to improve yourself in many aspects,whether physically or emotionally. Life may not be a smooth journey as we had ever thought.But sometimes the setbacks in life really makes us more mature and get some rewarding experience in other ways.Try our best and hope for the best!

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